Why Fathers Matter
 
 
About 4 out of 10 children go to sleep in homes where their fathers do not live. In the community, the number is 7 out of 10.
3 million children were living in father absent homes in neighborhoods where single mothers headed the majority of homes.
Of all black babies born in 1996, approximately 70% were born to unmarried mothers. A black child spends almost 60% of their childhood without their fathers.
Father absence has a negative impact on child development outcomes.
Children growing up without their fathers face a greater risk of committing crimes and/or becoming a victim of a crime -especially child abuse.
Children who live apart from their fathers are five times more likely to be poor and are much more likely to do poorly in school, and twice as likely to drop out of school.
Fatherless children pass on the pains of father hunger, and they struggle each and every day with trying to figure out what it means to be a man. Little girls struggle to develop a sense of love-worthiness, often offering sex in exchange for what they hope will be love.
 

Rationale for Training
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Black fathers are the missing link in the lives of far too many of their children.

In an increasingly dangerous and unpredictable world, absent fathers add tremendously to the insecurity of children. It is common knowledge that children function best where both parents combine ad compliment their energies and talents in the rearing of children. Poverty, economic dislocation and rapid social change have contributed to an increasing number of children who are growing up in financially stripped, single female-headed households. Absentee Black fathers are no longer the exception, but rather the rule. As a result, more and more children are not receiving the full benefits of family life. Children who live absent their biological fathers are, on average, at least two to three times more likely to be poor, to use drugs, to experience educational, health, emotional and behavioral problems, to be victims of child abuse and to engage in criminal behavior than their peers who live with their biological (or adoptive) parents.

Black children need and deserve to have positive, caring, committed and nurturing fathers actively present in their lives whenever possible. It is a fact that children whose fathers are actively involved in their lives do better in school than children whose fathers aren’t around. They are less prone to depression, they have better interpersonal skills and they are more likely to become good parents themselves. In conclusion, Black fathers matter and our training sessions will provide fathers with an understanding and appreciation of their sacred role as fathers. In addition, they will be given the opportunity to interact and dialogue with other fathers who are desirous of becoming exceptional fathers, mates, husbands, leaders, heroes and the special Black men they must become to build healthy Black families and communities.

Goal for Training Session
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The goal of the training session is to provide fathers with valuable support, critical information and the required skills to become exceptional and successful fathers. Moreover, the training sessions will:

 
Restore and reinforce the message that fathers are indispensable, and that children need their fathers for emotional, spiritual, psychological as well as financial support.
Address openly and candidly the stereotypes and prejudices about Black fathers that are counter-productive.
Provide fathers with a series of dynamic training sessions that are designed to enhance parenting skills; educate fathers of their sacred and invaluable role; and, create confident, caring, committed fathers and community
 

 

 
 
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